关于认真

昨天和高山同学们after party，因为零点一过就是生日，所以大家分别送了我一句话。 很感人的一段时光。‍‍‍

一位朋友形容我是个「做每一件事情都很认真」的人。很高兴，也有点小惊讶。曾经的我不是这样的，就像很多人一样，我害怕去认真、害怕在乎。认真想来，是因为变勇敢了吧。

因为，「认真」背后是「勇敢」。

一位帅帅的但我不知道名字的英国男演员曾这样说：

I gave myself permission to care. There are a lot of people in this world who are afraid of caring or afraid of showing that they care, because it is uncool, it is uncool to have passion.

It is so much easier to lose, when you've shown everyone how much you don't care if you win or lose.

It is much harder to lose when you show that you care.

But, you will never win, unless you also stand to lose.

Do not afraid of your passion. Just give it free reign, and be honest and work hard, and it will all turn out just fine.

我允许自己去在乎。因为这个世界上有许多人害怕去在乎，害怕显露出他们在乎。

因为不够酷，有了激情就显得不淡定。越让人觉得你并不在乎得失，真到失去就越轻松；越表现出你在乎，失去时就越艰难。‍‍

但是，

想赢，你就要能扛得住失败。

不要回避你的情感，挥洒你的激情，诚实面对自己，并且足够努力，该来的自然会来的。‍‍‍‍‍‍‍

祝我自己保持激情、保持在乎、保持勇敢、保持认真。Be fearless.